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Ariana Wayz - 1 ticket

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Hi! I just wanted to put my input on this discussion. I have been playing on this server for about 3 months now and I agree that this is an issue. Personally, I don't get affected by the IC interactions but it does discourage me to go to certain places such as the bank. However I cant speak for everyone. I am sure it's super uncomfortable, especially if you're by yourself to get ganged up on and I totally agree that it's unrealistic. I love waking up and going to the parking lot only for 10+ gang members to surround me and ask for ERP. If anything it's just annoying having to deal with boys/ grown men stalking your character, making comments, calling you all sorts of names whilst you just want to go on with your day. I don't really care about how boys talk to me IC, but most of the time when a boy tries to talk to me IC they take it OOC. After either trying to cat call me or force an interaction with me I get hit with the /pm 000 Hey what's your discord? -- Again, I can just ignore it right? But no, sadly some of these boys do take the time to look in every EclipseRP related discord server in hopes of finding me. What happens next? Constant messages. Yes I am aware that I can block them, but does it help when it happens frequently? When I have to deal with it every single day that I log on? And for the record. No it's definitely not only criminals on the server who acts this way. It's everything from PD, MD, DCC, DOC, both big and small factions, quiz team members, support members, and even moderators+. You get the idea. I've been sent to prison before and watched DOC employees state remarks about things they do to females. Similar things happen in PD when I have to deal with officers constantly harassing me and targeting me for rejecting them. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying everyone at PD is bad, but the majority of officers I have interacted with have said some sort of sexual comment towards my character and they let their OOC feelings mix into their character's feelings. I love watching the same cop who was rejected the day prior mosey on up to bank with the swat team over reckless operation of a vehicle. Now to all of you who say ignore it, yeah let me just ignore a police officer when he pulls me over just to talk to my character and force interaction? Let me just ignore a staff member and ignore RP? You either comply and talk to them or reject them and get targeted. You rejected a police officer? Have fun being arrested on bullshit charges. For those that say report them, do you expect me to report 10+ different guys every day for harassment and report staff members for constantly trying to contact me OOC? All you can do as a female on this server is smile, wave, act nice and ignore anything sexual that comes your way even if you're being stalked and messaged OOCly.