Hey @Elsie, with my interactions with a lot of the players here out of character, I've seen a lot of them being supportive of LGBTQ+ folks which is extremely important to me. In terms of In Character interactions, the F slur and some other slurs that would be considered homophobic have been thrown around quite a bit in all honesty which can make me uncomfortable at times, but I just remember that hopefully these are in-character interactions only and it doesn't depict that player's out of character beliefs or opinions. If stuff like this makes you uncomfortable, or it's excessive you can definitely ask them in /b (Out of Character chat) to stop using those terms as it's making you uncomfortable per the server rules.
Under #8 of the Server Rules, it states the following:
Players using offensive language IC must not use it excessively and must stop if asked OOCly.
If a user ends up using language in character that is making you uncomfortable out of character and they don't stop when you ask them to, it's a breach of server rules and that individual should be reported for it. Generally speaking, I'm always recording with a bodycam for in-character reasons, but I have Shadowplay recording in 10 minute intervals for ensuring that I can document breaches of server rules properly for player reports. Barring some interactions with random players I've met once or twice, everyone that I interact with on a normal basis is extremely supportive and very accepting of people for who they are.
I hope this helps! Welcome to the community.