My 2 cents as a new player....
I was accepted the other day after two attempts at the application. After the first one was rejected, I'll admit I was a little disheartened. However, I accepted the guidance, made the appropriate corrections, and was accepted. I figured that if the application process was this stringent, and the server was topping Google search on a different platform to most other servers, it would be top notch.
(No offence is intended here, but) the server sucked. I passed the driving test (during which I was overtaken by cops "chasing" nobody flat out down the freeway. Almost crashing into me - yes, I pulled in when I heard the sirens, although I barely had time to, they were all over the road.). I finished the test and took a rental scooter to my first job as a cash courier. I hopped into my security van and went to my first location, an ATM. The ATM was instructing me to press "Y" to service it. I pressed "Y". Nothing happened. I turned around to find that my van had disappeared. I was now stranded in the middle of the "city" with no transport.
I decided to take look around. I could hear traffic, and people. It sounded like a populated city, only there were no people, and no cars. It was like "28 days later" but with more noise. Completely unrealistic.
I kept looking around. There were people chatting occasionally in the chat window. I met one guy who was driving a cab after about 20 minutes of looking. He asked did I need a cab, but I had nowhere to go, so I politely declined.
Went looking for something else to do... couldn't find anything. Wasn't going to waste my time on another "job". Happened upon a cop station with 2 or 3 actual people. Was overjoyed, until one of those cops jumped into a car, drove up the street at break-neck speed, did a 180 hand brake turn, back to the station, crashed into a parked car, reversed out and carried on driving like a prat.
At this point, regretting that I hadn't taken the cab driver up on his offer, I phoned a cab. After waiting 10 minutes, I gave up an made my way to Tequil la la to find an empty building.
I logged off, uninstalled RageMP and went back to FiveM (which I finally figured out how to get running, and have been playing there since).
Good luck with the server guys (genuinely), it isn't for me though. Just thought you guys seem to be putting a lot of work in, and an actual first hand new player account may help. Is there a way of adding NPCs into certain areas to give them a bit of life (you can't possibly host enough people to make a city centre realistically populated)? This is still GTA, surely I should be able to find a car to steal? If either of those things had been there, I may have stayed on and given it a try.